Post by robspace on Nov 6, 2011 11:36:33 GMT 9.5
My wonderful grandaughter will be 5 in a few weeks, and I thought about something that happened nearly two years ago. She was seeing her daddy, who was killed two weeks after she was born. She was not old enough to really "know" him, so it made the stories she told me and her mother even more fantastic.
She was getting visits from here daddy at night when she was in bed. She told us about 4 or 5 times about seeing him in her room. I asked her if he said anything and how did he get in the room. Now, she was only 3 at the time and with no prompting or any other influence at all, she just said, very calmly that her dad, my son, had "came through the wall"!
I asked if he said anything, and she said "yes, he said he was sorry". This gave me the chills, and still does. In the previous visits, she said he came to here and just stood there smiling but never spoke. This time he did, and it was just to say he was sorry that he had died and left her. We asked her what he was wearing, and at first I could not understand what she was telling me and her mom. She said he was wearing "like tire clothes", and they were yellow.
We finally figured out that she was saying he had on his rain clothes that he wore every day when he was out on the fishing boats. All the deck hands wear them. He had come to his daughter in the same clothes he had on when their fishing boat capsized and took all 4 of them down. He came through to see her and tell her he loved her and how sorry he was that he had died.
Now, I have never seen any ghosts, and I have lost all but my sister so far, and I have never seen or heard from any of them. Nothing from mom, dad, brother, son, and numerous friends. But, I believe my son came through to his daughter, and I wish I had seen him also, but, I really think this is mainly done with small children, as they are alot more open to it, and they have not yet thought about or formed opinions of spirits and death, and the possibilty of the dead being able to manifest themselves to us.
I believe my grandaughter, because she was never given the information of my sons clothes or how he died. One time she told me she had a dream that he was under water and swimming upward. Now, she never has had any of that information so how would a 3 year old know this?
The visits seem to have finally stopped. Her mother told me that one night after my grandaughter had just woken up from a nap, she told her mom all about her daddy and the boat sinking. So, my daughter in law said she was worried about her becoming scared and she asked my son to stop and wait until she's old enough to understand.
The visits have stopped, and she seems to not be seeing him anymore. I have no answers, and wish I could see him, but I think this is only reserved for the young.
She was getting visits from here daddy at night when she was in bed. She told us about 4 or 5 times about seeing him in her room. I asked her if he said anything and how did he get in the room. Now, she was only 3 at the time and with no prompting or any other influence at all, she just said, very calmly that her dad, my son, had "came through the wall"!
I asked if he said anything, and she said "yes, he said he was sorry". This gave me the chills, and still does. In the previous visits, she said he came to here and just stood there smiling but never spoke. This time he did, and it was just to say he was sorry that he had died and left her. We asked her what he was wearing, and at first I could not understand what she was telling me and her mom. She said he was wearing "like tire clothes", and they were yellow.
We finally figured out that she was saying he had on his rain clothes that he wore every day when he was out on the fishing boats. All the deck hands wear them. He had come to his daughter in the same clothes he had on when their fishing boat capsized and took all 4 of them down. He came through to see her and tell her he loved her and how sorry he was that he had died.
Now, I have never seen any ghosts, and I have lost all but my sister so far, and I have never seen or heard from any of them. Nothing from mom, dad, brother, son, and numerous friends. But, I believe my son came through to his daughter, and I wish I had seen him also, but, I really think this is mainly done with small children, as they are alot more open to it, and they have not yet thought about or formed opinions of spirits and death, and the possibilty of the dead being able to manifest themselves to us.
I believe my grandaughter, because she was never given the information of my sons clothes or how he died. One time she told me she had a dream that he was under water and swimming upward. Now, she never has had any of that information so how would a 3 year old know this?
The visits seem to have finally stopped. Her mother told me that one night after my grandaughter had just woken up from a nap, she told her mom all about her daddy and the boat sinking. So, my daughter in law said she was worried about her becoming scared and she asked my son to stop and wait until she's old enough to understand.
The visits have stopped, and she seems to not be seeing him anymore. I have no answers, and wish I could see him, but I think this is only reserved for the young.